Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast
Every Tuesday I have a new episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast where I talk about a different topic as it relates to break ups, healing your heartbreak, growing in your single life, and moving into happier and healthier relationships.
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Heal Your Heartbreak Episodes
#203 How to Be OK When You’re Not OK with Beth Schild
Today on the show, I'm interviewing Beth Schild who is a self-love and empowerment coach with a strong focus on somatic healing which has been something I've personally been very interested in lately. We talk about how to move emotions out of your body, how to get better in touch with your body when it comes to emotions, how to use somatic healing in your breakup, how to be ok when you're not ok, we talk about the inner critic we all have, and so so much more.
Follow Beth on Instagram @shiftwithbeth
#202 Trauma, Addiction, and Breakups with Dr. Elisa Hallerman
Today I'm joined by Dr. Elisa Hallerman who is the author of the book Soulbriety. In this episode we discuss journey to her getting sober, how she completely changed her career later in llife, how to get in touch with yourself and your soul, her own breakup recovery, trauma bonds, and most importantly how to build an internal communication system between you and your gut, and so much more.
#201 One Person Can’t Do All the Work
In today's solo episode we're talking about the fact that it takes TWO people to make a relationship work. So often in breakups we're only blaming ourselves for things we could have done better or things we could have done to save the relationship but we neglect to remember that it takes two willing and motivated people to do the work to have a successful relationship.
#200 What To Do When You’re Spiraling
In today's solo episode I talk about what to do if you find yourself completely stuck in a spiral about your breakup. Obsessive thinking unfortunately comes with the territory of a breakup but I wanted to make sure you are equipped with some tools on how to handle days when you feel stuck in the black hole of negative thoughts, wondering about your ex, obsessing about the relationship, beating yourself up, and all the other things we do when we're spiraling.
#199 Letting Go of Relationship Shame with Rory Uphold
Today on the show I'm joined by Rory Uphold who is the host of the Crimes of the Heart Podcast and we had such a great conversation about all things breakups, dating, and relationships. We talk about the power of rock bottoms when it comes to relationships, why we tend to settle, the anxiety we tend to give relationships, and we talk a lot about the topic of shame and how we can overcome feeling that way.
Be sure to check out Rory on Instagram and Crimes of the Heart wherever you listen to podcasts!
#198 Listener Episode Getting to Know Yourself Post Codependency with Dan
In the first episode of 2024 I have a listener episode for you with Dan- a 45 year old writer in LA and we're talking about Dan's journey after getting out of a codependent relationship. We talk about how to get to know yourself after being a people pleaser your whole life, how to learn how to appreciate being on your own, why taking risks can be so healing, and much more. His story is full of levity and hope for those of you who feel really stuck!
#197: The D Word with Kate Anthony
In today's episode I have a returning guest on the show, Kate Anthony who is a divorce coach and specialist and the host of the Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the author of her new book which is out TODAY, The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage . In this episode we talk about why women initiate most divorces, the added emotional toll of going through a divorce with children involved, why women stay in relationships for so long when they're not working, the normal things women who initiate divorce go through, and so much more.
#196 Maintaining Perspective
In today's episode I talk about how to maintain perspective during a breakup. It's so easy to get tunnel visioned and believe the breakup is the only thing happening in your life and that it will last forever, which neither are true. I give different tips, exercises, and new ways to think about your breakup that will allow you to see that there is life outside of your breakup and there's life beyond your breakup.
#195 I Didn’t Know I Needed This with Eli Rallo
Today I interviewed Eli Rallo who you may know from all over social media. She is a podcaster, media personality, and author of the book I Didn't Know I Needed This which comes out TODAY. In this episode we talk all about Eli's journey to learning how to love her life single, the rules for being single (hint: there aren't any), how to build self esteem, and so much more.
#194 Why Does Breakup Pain Happen in Waves?
In today's solo episode I talk about why breakup pain doesn't happen in a linear or step by step fashion. I hear from so many of you questions like "I was feeling so much better and now I'm sad again, what's happening?" and I explore that topic in depth in today's episode.
#193 The Four Relationship Styles with Dr. Anita Kuhnley
In today's episode I interview Dr. Anita Kuhnley to talk about her new book "The Four Relationships Styles: How Attachment Theory Can Help You in Your Search for Lasting Love". We discuss looking at attachment styles through the lens of strengths instead of weaknesses, how attachment styles aren't a curse but just something to learn about, and we talk through each style and how it can impact you in romantic relationships, friendships, and in your time single.
#192 Breaking Up in the Modern World with Daniel Chidiac
In today's expert episode I interview Daniel Chidiac who you may know as the author of The Modern Breakup which is a New York Times Best Selling Book and has sold millions of copies. I talk to Daniel about his inspiration for the book, why he believes modern breakups are so hard, what's wrong with the modern dating scene and what he thinks about closure.
#191 Listener Episode: Calling Off the Wedding with Ell
In today's listener episode I'm interviewing Ell who was in a 10 year relationship, was engaged, had planned a wedding and finally listened to her gut feeling and called off the wedding. We talk about how she knew the relationship wasn't right for her, how her culture influenced her family's reaction to walking away from the relationship, her fear surrounding letting go of this relationship and how she moved forward. If you want to connect with Ell you can on Instagram @livingbyell
#190 Flipping the Script
If you follow me on Instagram you know that every few weeks I do a series where I ask my followers to share their fears and negative thoughts they've been obsessing about and I turn them into a hopeful statement or an affirmation, and I call it flipping the script. This is such an important practice to adopt to combat the negative obsessions going on in your mind during your breakup. Feel free to come back and listen to this episode as often as you need to.
#189: Ghosting
In honor of today being Halloween, I recorded a solo episode on the topic of ghosting. In this episode I talk about what ghosting is (and what it is not), why people ghost, why we're seeing an increase in ghosting, and how to heal when you're on the receiving end of being ghosted.
#188 Listener Episode: You Can Be in Pain + Blossom at the Same Time
In today's listener episode, I interview Steph who is 33 living in London. She went through a breakup a year and a half ago from a 6 year relationship where she truly pictured spending the rest of her life with this person. We talk about the big changes she made right after her breakup including changing jobs and moving countries. We talk about how even though it's been such a painful chapter of her life she feels so empowered and that she's really blossoming at the same time.
#187: The Reality of Getting Back with an Ex
In today’s solo episode I talk about the reality of getting back with an ex. There are so many accounts, content, and information about getting back with an ex but no one talks about what comes afterward and what the most likely scenario of what that looks like. In this episode I lay out everything that would need to be in place for you and your ex to successfully get back together, and how you could continue the relationship without getting trapped in the cycle of breaking up and getting back together over and over again. I' hope that this episode takes some of the glamour out of the idea or hope of getting back together with your ex.
#186 Divorce is not a Failure with Rebecca Feinglos
In today's episode I interview Rebecca Feinglos who you may have already seen from her viral TikToks where she took her friends to Vegas for a divorce party and caught the attention of Adele (AND made Adele cry). In this episode we talk about the difficulties Rebecca went through when navigating her divorce and we talk about all that she learned when starting to navigate this process including how difficult the process can be for women especially. We talk about Rebecca's "grieve leave" from not only her divorce but also losing her father right when Covid started, and how she took her experience and created a community for others going through grief called Grieve Leave.
#185 Navigating the World as the “Only Single Person”
In today's episode I'm discussing when it feels like you're the only single person on the planet and the pain that can come with that. I also talk about a lot of different strategies to help deal with that feeling including how to validate your feelings around it while still maintaining perspective, how to change your attitude around it, how to deal with nosy family members, and what other action items you can be taking.
#184 How Storytelling Saves Lives with Kevin Hines
Today's episode has such a special guest, Kevin Hines is a world renowned speaker, advocate, and author. When Kevin was 19 he jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and survived and used his experience and story to help other people ever since. We talk a lot about the validation of mental health, how Kevin has managed his mental health the last 20 years, how storytelling helped him and thousands and thousands of others.
