Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast
Every Tuesday I have a new episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast where I talk about a different topic as it relates to break ups, healing your heartbreak, growing in your single life, and moving into happier and healthier relationships.
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Episode 32: How to Stop Playing Investigator
Stalking social media, getting intel from friends, we've ALL done things to play the investigator with our to figure out what they're up to, how they're doing, and if they're seeing anyone new. In this episode I walk through why we do it, why it's not a good idea, and how we can become more aware and stop those behaviors so we can get the space to heal.
Stalking social media, getting intel from friends, we've ALL done things to play the investigator with our to figure out what they're up to, how they're doing, and if they're seeing anyone new. In this episode I walk through why we do it, why it's not a good idea, and how we can become more aware and stop those behaviors so we can get the space to heal.
Episode 31: How to Deal with Loneliness
Feeling lonely is a very normal emotion to come up after a break up. You lose the partnership and companionship you got from your ex and it can be easy to feel completely alone. In this episode, I go over some actions to take to overcome loneliness, how to get to the root cause of your loneliness, and some ways to shift your perspective.
Feeling lonely is a very normal emotion to come up after a break up. You lose the partnership and companionship you got from your ex and it can be easy to feel completely alone. In this episode, I go over some actions to take to overcome loneliness, how to get to the root cause of your loneliness, and some ways to shift your perspective.
Episode 30: How to Forgive Your Ex
Forgiveness is SUCH an important part of break up recovery. There is a time and a place to be angry and express that anger about your ex, but there needs to be a point where we look at those feelings from a different perspective so we can forgive and let go. In this episode I talk about why it's so improtant to forgive, how to do it, and also why YOU are the person you probably need to forgive the most.
Forgiveness is SUCH an important part of break up recovery. There is a time and a place to be angry and express that anger about your ex, but there needs to be a point where we look at those feelings from a different perspective so we can forgive and let go. In this episode I talk about why it's so improtant to forgive, how to do it, and also why YOU are the person you probably need to forgive the most.
Episode 29: Friendship Break Ups
Yes breaking up with a boyfriend hurts, but so does losing a relationship with a friend. In this episode I walk through why friendship break ups hurt so much, the different kinds of friendship break ups, how to heal when you lose a friend, and what to do if you need to end a friendship.
Yes breaking up with a boyfriend hurts, but so does losing a relationship with a friend. In this episode I walk through why friendship break ups hurt so much, the different kinds of friendship break ups, how to heal when you lose a friend, and what to do if you need to end a friendship.
Episode 28: Top Mistakes Making Your Break Up Harder
No break up is perfect, and we're all going to make mistakes. But there are certain things you can do in a break up that is going to make the healing process much harder and last longer. In this episode I go over the top 5 mistakes I see people make in break ups that make it harder on you and make the pain last a lot longer.
No break up is perfect, and we're all going to make mistakes. But there are certain things you can do in a break up that is going to make the healing process much harder and last longer. In this episode I go over the top 5 mistakes I see people make in break ups that make it harder on you and make the pain last a lot longer.
Episode 27: Why I Married my Ex
Today I'm sharing the juicy story of how my husband and I's relationship was evolved. Yes, my husband dumped me about 5 1/2 years ago. In this episode I do share the story but most importantly I share 5 lessons on WHY it worked, and why I still don't advise others to get back together with their exes for the most part.
Today I'm sharing the juicy story of how my husband and I's relationship was evolved. Yes, my husband dumped me about 5 1/2 years ago. In this episode I do share the story but most importantly I share 5 lessons on WHY it worked, and why I still don't advise others to get back together with their exes for the most part.
Episode 26: Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster
Break ups are one giant emotional rollercoaster ride that most of the time we wish we could get off of. In this episode I talk about how to navigate it, the lows and the highs. I talk about how to bring yourself up when you're feeling down and the different phases of what this rollercoaster can look like.
Break ups are one giant emotional rollercoaster ride that most of the time we wish we could get off of. In this episode I talk about how to navigate it, the lows and the highs. I talk about how to bring yourself up when you're feeling down and the different phases of what this rollercoaster can look like.
Episode 25: Dating After Heartbreak
Today I have my friend Valerie (@themindfulbabe) on the show to discuss all things dating. Valerie is a Dating Mindset Coach who coaches women to date with confidence and attract emotionally available men. We talk about how to know if you're ready to date, how to grow your confidence, how to trust yourself and others again, and so much more! Check out Valerie on Instagram @themindfulbabe
Today I have my friend Valerie (@themindfulbabe) on the show to discuss all things dating. Valerie is a Dating Mindset Coach who coaches women to date with confidence and attract emotionally available men. We talk about how to know if you're ready to date, how to grow your confidence, how to trust yourself and others again, and so much more! Check out Valerie on Instagram @themindfulbabe
Episode 24: Boosting Self Esteem Post Break Up
No matter how we slice it, a break up is going to lower self esteem. We start having thoughts of not being good enough and our self worth drops. In this episode I talk about specific and actionable ways to start raising your self esteem today!
No matter how we slice it, a break up is going to lower self esteem. We start having thoughts of not being good enough and our self worth drops. In this episode I talk about specific and actionable ways to start raising your self esteem today!
Episode 23: Rebound Relationships
In this episode I discuss rebound relationships after heartbreak. I go over what a rebound relationship is, why we tend to fall into them, what to do if you find yourself wanting one or in one, and how to fill the void left by a break up in healthy ways.
In this episode I discuss rebound relationships after heartbreak. I go over what a rebound relationship is, why we tend to fall into them, what to do if you find yourself wanting one or in one, and how to fill the void left by a break up in healthy ways.
Episode 22: Blindsided by your Break Up?
Sometimes we can see a break up coming from a mile away but sometimes it comes out of NOWHERE and hits us like a truck. In this episode I discuss how to heal when your break up blindsided you.
Sometimes we can see a break up coming from a mile away but sometimes it comes out of NOWHERE and hits us like a truck. In this episode I discuss how to heal when your break up blindsided you.
Episode 21: How to Deal When You Have Mutual Friends
Having the same friends is a natural occurence that happens in a relationship, so when a break up happens how do you navigate your mutual friend group? In this episode I go through 6 things to consider during this process, and most of them will probably surprise you!
Having the same friends is a natural occurence that happens in a relationship, so when a break up happens how do you navigate your mutual friend group? In this episode I go through 6 things to consider during this process, and most of them will probably surprise you!
Episode 20: What to Consider Before Getting Back with an Ex
As you know I'm not a big advocate for getting back together with exes. However, it does happen- BUT in this episode I lay out the 5 things you MUST consider before making the decision to get back together with them. By considering these 5 things you're much less likely to make the decision impulsively and more likely to make a decision that actually works out. The last thing we want is to get stuck in the cycle of breaking up and getting back together over and over again.
As you know I'm not a big advocate for getting back together with exes. However, it does happen- BUT in this episode I lay out the 5 things you MUST consider before making the decision to get back together with them. By considering these 5 things you're much less likely to make the decision impulsively and more likely to make a decision that actually works out. The last thing we want is to get stuck in the cycle of breaking up and getting back together over and over again.
Episode 19: When Your Ex Was Your Best Friend
Losing your best friend can be one of the hardest parts about going through a break up. In this episode I walk through why it's important not to continue that friendship and risking your emotional well being as well as how to fill the void left by that friendship.
Losing your best friend can be one of the hardest parts about going through a break up. In this episode I walk through why it's important not to continue that friendship and risking your emotional well being as well as how to fill the void left by that friendship.
Episode 18: The Male Perspective of a Break Up
Today I have my very first guest on the show, I interviewed Mindie Kaplan the founder of Male Room which is a content platform where they interview men all about their perspective on relationships and dating. In this episode Mindie and I answer questions like, why do guys appear to get over break ups so much quicker? How do guys get over break ups? Is sex really just physical for guys? I personally learned so much on this episode and I know you will too.
Today I have my very first guest on the show, I interviewed Mindie Kaplan the founder of Male Room which is a content platform where they interview men all about their perspective on relationships and dating. In this episode Mindie and I answer questions like, why do guys appear to get over break ups so much quicker? How do guys get over break ups? Is sex really just physical for guys? I personally learned so much on this episode and I know you will too.
Episode 17: When Your Ex Starts Dating Someone New
In this episode I cover what to do when your greatest fear happens, you find out your ex is dating someone new. It's one of the more painful parts to get through in a break up but it's totally possible with a perspective shift, some boundaries, and self love.
In this episode I cover what to do when your greatest fear happens, you find out your ex is dating someone new. It's one of the more painful parts to get through in a break up but it's totally possible with a perspective shift, some boundaries, and self love.
Episode 16: Break Ups Without Closure
This is another listener advice episode all about closure, or the lack of closure that often doesn't come after a break up. Someone obsessively seeking closure is one of the biggest reasons why you can't move forward after a break up. In this episode I go through why we don't get closure and how we can move on in SPITE of not getting closure.
This is another listener advice episode all about closure, or the lack of closure that often doesn't come after a break up. Someone obsessively seeking closure is one of the biggest reasons why you can't move forward after a break up. In this episode I go through why we don't get closure and how we can move on in SPITE of not getting closure.
Episode 15: How to Deal with Relationship Memories
In this episode I discuss how to make your trip down memory lane a little less painful after your break up. I cover how to deal with music, visiting certain places, activities, what to do with your photos, and a lot more!
In this episode I discuss how to make your trip down memory lane a little less painful after your break up. I cover how to deal with music, visiting certain places, activities, what to do with your photos, and a lot more!
Episode 14: Boundaries & Break Ups
Boundaries are so important in the healing process. After going through a break up are hearts are already so fragile, so it's important to keep our hearts protected as much as possible. In this episode I cover the importance of boundaries and I go through 7 specific examples of boundaries you might encounter after your break up between your ex, your friends, and your family.
Boundaries are so important in the healing process. After going through a break up are hearts are already so fragile, so it's important to keep our hearts protected as much as possible. In this episode I cover the importance of boundaries and I go through 7 specific examples of boundaries you might encounter after your break up between your ex, your friends, and your family.
Episode 13: How to Stay Positive After a Break Up
While it's TOTALLY normal to feel extremely sad and negative after a break up there are still ways to add some optimism and positivity into your life. In this episode I walk through different tools to bring more happiness and positivity into a dark time.
While it's TOTALLY normal to feel extremely sad and negative after a break up there are still ways to add some optimism and positivity into your life. In this episode I walk through different tools to bring more happiness and positivity into a dark time.