Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast
Every Tuesday I have a new episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast where I talk about a different topic as it relates to break ups, healing your heartbreak, growing in your single life, and moving into happier and healthier relationships.
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#106: Owning Your Part with Kyle
This is officially the first male listener episode we've had here on the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast, and you won't be disappointed! I got to interview Kyle, who got out of an on and off relationship five months ago. They had rushed into things, and he knew deep down things just weren't right, but he did what he could to stay in the relationship. Throughout the episode, Kyle talks about how much he lost himself through trying to save and salvage his relationship. Following the breakup he took his healing process head on, and shares about how he incorporated journaling, therapy, talking with friends, and also how he hit the pause button to really take the time to feel all the feelings. This episode is such a good one, and reflects everything I would prescribe to find healing post breakup.
#105: How To Change Who You Attract
On today's episode we talk about how to change who you are attracting in your relationships. After breakups a lot of us ask ourselves why we attract people who hurt us, and there are big differences between dating mistakes most of us make, and PATTERNS that are likely linked to beliefs we have about ourselves. In this episode we dive into how to following a breakup we can best use our time to make some changes that allow you to change the type of person you attract in the future, change your beliefs about yourself, and how to ask questions to really learn more about yourself to help break some of those patterns in the future.
#104: Guy Winch: How To Fix A Broken Heart.
In today's expert episode, I had the chance to interview psychologist Guy Winch. He is vastly known for his TEDTalk How To Fix A Broken Heart. In this episode we talk about the experience of heartbreak and why it is just so painful, but also why as a society we don't recognize how truly painful the experience of heartbreak can really be. We talk more about why we obsess on our ex, or obsess over closure and the possibility of getting back together. Guy is an expert on heartbreak, and there is just so much goodness in this episode, I'm honored to have him as our guest!
#103: Unrequited Love
Welcome back to another solo episode, talking about unrequited love - which is laymen's terms is love that is not reciprocated. This is for those of you who may be in a current relationship situation like this, or you're coming out of one. Throughout this episode we talk more about what unrequited love is, what it feels like, how you can know if this is something you're experiencing, and how to deal with it.
#102: Listener Story Danielle: The Real + Relatable Break Up Struggles
On today's episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak podcast, I got to talk with Danielle who is a former coaching client of mine. She is so relatable, and really opens up about the real side of a break up that so many of you can likely resonate with. She shares a lot of her early on struggles along with everything she learned and turned it into a really empowering story. She had me laughing constantly, and I know our listeners will love Danielle and her story.
#101 How To Be OK Single
On today's solo episode we talk about how to be OK single. If you're someone who has never spent time single the most important thing you can do is to spend time single, and find how liberating and empowering it can be. Being OK single doesn't mean you want to be single forever, it just means that you know how to be content in the situation you're in. When you can get to a place where you are content on your own, you're automatically raising the bar for the next partner you bring into your life. Tune in for my take on the benefits of being OK single, and how to tackle the fear & discomfort associated with it.
#100 Owning Who You Are with Gina Devee
Welcome to the 100th episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast! On today's episode I got to talk with Gina Devee, a leading women's empowerment mentor and author of The Audacity to Be Queen. Gina and I talked about a lot of different things when it comes to relationships, including her own journey in "the school of love", overcoming a number of obstacles to overcome her relationship patterns and in turn become aware of them in order to change. We also talk about how to learn to own what you want, own whats important to you, and own how you want to feel in your relationships so that when you do start dating you know exactly how you want to feel, and the type of person you want to attract into your life. Gina's overall message comes down to owning who you are, and that is something all of us can benefit from!
More about Gina and the link to order her book The Audacity to be Queen!
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#99 Whats normal to feel when you start dating?
In this episode I want to shed some light on some things you will likely experience once you dip your toe back into the dating scene. First things first, it's normal to feel reallllly nervous and not excited about dating again. I remember my friends were trying to hype me up and they were expecting me to be excited about it but it was something I was dreading. Throughout this episode we talk about some feelings you might have, and things you might experience that are a normal part of starting to date again post breakup. If you experience any of these things, it does not mean you aren't ready - it's just normal growing pains!
#98 Listener Story: When Your Ex Can’t Commit.
On today's listener story, I interviewed Elaina who was a former coaching client of mine! I got to see her at the height of her heartbreak, and now how far she's come. Elaina is 32 years old, from Brooklyn, New York and she shares her story about how she was in a situationship for a year that ended up evolving into a relationship and how it finally ended when they realized it was going to go anywhere. We dive further into the shock and anxiety that can evolve when you're in a relationship with someone who can't commit, and how she was able to make sense of it all without personalizing it. I am such a big fan of Elaina, and she does such a great job of opening up about how she worked through this heartbreak, and know this episode will be so helpful for our listeners.
#97 Therapy + Break ups
On today's solo episode we are talking about therapy + break ups. I talk about the importance of therapy, how beneficial it can be, and how to get the most out of your sessions. I know going to therapy can be scary and intimidating for some, so I wanted to share what blocked me from seeing a therapist in the past, but also how making the decision to go was so helpful for healing. Going through a break up is hard, as most of you know - but going to therapy helped me with my feelings, seeing my behavior pattern from an outside perspective, and how to be more in tough with my intuition. My hope for this episode is to help you get the confidence to go to therapy, and to understand how beneficial it can be!
#96: Break Ups After 30 with Lisa Cleary
On today’s episode I got the opportunity to chat with Lisa Cleary. Lisa is a tough love self-help writer with a focus on relationships and breakups, mindset, and goals. Her debut book is: How to Survive a Breakup: When all of your friends are birthing their second child.
Her work has appeared in TODAY, The Huffington Post, Women's Health, The Financial Diet, Love What Matters, and more. She was a former daily health columnist for NBC. Cleary blogs for her website, www.LisaCleary.com, where she features public figures like Bravo's Rhylee Gerber from Below Deck, pop culture artist Ashley Longshore, Bravo's Rosie Pope, and more.
On today’s episode we talk about some of the challenges that we find in break ups as we get older. Lisa talks about her thoughts on the imaginary deadlines we give ourselves when it comes to settling down & having children. Needing advice or help in the healing process as you’re going through a break up at an older age, this is the perfect episode for you!
Connect with Lisa Cleary at www.LisaCleary.com or Instagram @LisaCleary3.
#95 Are you ready to move on?
On today's solo episode, I talk about how to know if you're ready to move on from your break up. I'll share some signs you might be over your ex, and dive more into the very common question of when is it the right time to start dating after a break up. This episode is not a one-size fits all, but is a helpful reminder that the final parts of the healing process happen when you start healing.
#94: Listener Story- The Cycle of Breaking Up + Getting Back Together Again
On today's listener story, I interviewed Ashley who is a podcaster and youtuber sharing her story about her relationship cycle of breaking up & getting back together again. She shares with us how she rebuilt her confidence after a hurtful & toxic relationship, and the process of learning from the relationship and what she can improve on moving forward. If you're someone that has experienced any kind of toxic relationship, one that has had a lot of back and forth, or one that has left you struggling to regain your confidence post break up this will be a great episode for you.
#93: Did you lose your identity through the break up?
On today's solo episode, we are talking about how to regain your identity after a break up. If your identity was wrapped up in your partner, or in the idea of being in a relationship which is fairly common. We will talk about how this happens, why we want to try to avoid this in the future, and how you can work on regaining your identity and relationship with yourself.
#92 Finding comedy in grief with Olivia Hill.
On today's expert episode, I got the opportunity to chat with Olivia Hill who is a stand up comedian, writer, and producer in Los Angeles. She has performed all over the country, been featured on Buzzfeed, is a member of the sketch group, Try Harder Sometimes and produces the variety show Philanthropy TBD. We talk about humor in the healing process, and how we can use this to bring light to a sad situation. Olivia talks about how to bring this into the healing processes, and why it can be helpful. This doesn't take away from the serious and sadness that comes in a break up, but gives us a new perspective on how to heal and find joy again.
#91: Stop obsessing on what your ex is thinking
On todays solo episode, we're talking about putting an end on obsessing about what your ex is thinking. Today's topic is one that I get asked a lot about, and realize that it is a very real issue for a lot of you. This can be extremely painful, and we are going to talk today about why I feel like this behavior is harmful to the healing process post-break up. Any time you choose to focus your energy on what someone else is thinking or doing, it takes away your power and can negatively impact your healing. Throughout this episode we will dive into the steps on how we can stop obsessing on what your ex is thinking and continue to heal and generate positive energy.
#90: Listener Story- Working with Your Ex
We are back with another listener story today with a former coaching client of mine, Allison. Allison is a teacher, and she talks about how she fell into a fast & intense relationship with another woman at work, that became toxic and resulted in a break up. Throughout this episode she shares about how her ex kept the relationship a secret, how the relationship ended, her testament on how to overcome the heartbreak and challenges of working with your ex, and how to heal your heartbreak and rediscover yourself after a painful break up.
#89: Your ex said "someday maybe"
In today's solo episode, the topic were tackling is if your ex said "someday, maybe". Whatever your ex said to you during your break up is probably replaying in your mind over and over again, especially if what they said included some variation of who knows, someday we might get back together. Throughout this episode we talk about how it is one of the more harmful things to hold on to after a break up, why its not something you should be hanging on to, and what to do instead.
#88: Working Through your Subconscious Beliefs with Heather Terbieten
In today's expert episode I got the opportunity to chat with my friend Heather, who is a coach for To Be Magnetic. In this episode, Heather and I talk a lot about rewiring your subconscious beliefs around relationships. She dives into the topic of manifestation, what this means, what this doesn't mean, and how you can utilize it in your healing process and day to day life while navigating your heartbreak.
Connect with Heather at heather@tobemagnetic.com
#87: Situationships
What is a situationship? In a situationship, the other person is getting ALL of the benefits of a relationship, without actually having to commit to put in the work of a relationship. In this episode, we talk more about what a situationship is, how it differs from friends with benefits, and how to prevent situationships from happening now and in the future.
